Miss Manners by Judith Martin, Nicholas Ivor Martin and Jacobina Martin

Miss Manners in Advice May 26, 2020

Digging Out Pens and Paper to Thank New Neighbors

DEAR MISS MANNERS: My husband and I have built a new home to accommodate the special needs of our disabled adult daughter, who lives with us. The building project, and then the move itself, did not... continue

Miss Manners in Advice May 25, 2020

Etiquette Not Suspended in an Emergency

GENTLE READERS: Minding other people’s business, which has always been a major etiquette hazard, has taken on the noble mantle of ministering to public health. To the extent that people are out and... continue

Miss Manners in Advice May 23, 2020

Seating Drama Overshadows Show

DEAR MISS MANNERS: I saw a wonderful show recently, but the first act was nearly ruined by a seating problem. I settled into my seat at 7:25 with the help of an usher. During the overture, a mother... continue

Miss Manners in Advice May 22, 2020

Must I Stop and Talk When I’m in a Hurry?

DEAR MISS MANNERS: A friend calls out to you in a parking lot. You wave hello, and keep going to your destination. Is it OK just to wave to a friend when you are in a hurry? Or do you have to stop ... continue