Miss Manners by Judith Martin, Nicholas Ivor Martin and Jacobina Martin

Miss Manners in Advice January 23, 2021

After Giving Thoughts and Prayers, Can I Request Updates?

DEAR MISS MANNERS: Sadly, these days it’s not unusual to receive requests for prayer, action or positive thoughts for people going through difficulties. When one hasn’t heard any more about the sit... continue

Miss Manners in Advice January 22, 2021

Former Colleague’s Omission is Puzzling

DEAR MISS MANNERS: I work at a small company in a relatively small and tight-knit industry, and was previously an officer in our industry’s national association. Last summer, my wife died unexpecte... continue

Miss Manners in Advice January 21, 2021

Celebrating 50 Years of Wedded ... Something

DEAR MISS MANNERS: I would say my parents “don’t get along,” but that makes it sound mutual. For as long as my sisters and I can remember, our mother has constantly nitpicked our father for things ... continue

Miss Manners in Advice January 20, 2021

Bossy Invitation Offends Guests

DEAR MISS MANNERS: My great-nephew and his wife are having a baby. The following statement was put on their shower invitation: “Masks are not required or needed, but if you think it is necessary, w... continue