DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m an older experienced dater (41 yr old lesbian) and have a higher body count than most people expect. These almost all happened between my mid 20s to 30s.... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I feel completely and utterly hopeless. I’m sacred, afraid and have massive inferiority complex about a lot from my body, my desirability and my sexuality.... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I tried to search for that sort of thing on this site, but I can’t find anything about it. This is unusual because the internet is literally full with it. Especially Reddit.... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Hi, it’s me again. I left a question earlier this year about my polyamorous boyfriend calling me controlling and now I’m back. I eventually broke up with him, reluctantly, and we w... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: This isn’t really a dating question (we’re married) but I hope you’ll still consider answering it.... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I have an ex-girlfriend who I’ve since maintained a friendship with. When we broke up, it was tenuous as break ups often are, but we both saw it coming and ended things amicably no... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I am literally not even 20 minutes removed from my first (and probably last) experience with a sex worker. Oh man. So a little background on 1. what led to this moment, and then 2. ... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: You’ve addressed similar questions before, but I wanted to come at my problem in more specific terms. I’m a 42M virgin. Never been in a relationship. Lots of reasons, but I would s... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: It’s been a while and I read your article on “Leveling Up” and after the initial trauma and breakdown of not feeling good enough I wanted to paint a picture of all the progress I’v... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m 26 years old and have barely any experience with women, I’ve had about 5 or 6 dates total and slept with one woman, though I felt forced into that and found out that I don’t en... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I just moved to a country different from my home country, and I met a Scandinavian guy. During the first few days of talking to him, I always had the feeling that he had no interes... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’ve been reading your blog for quite some time now and I absolutely love it ! You provide a lot of advice and a lot of food for thought, sometimes brutally honest, sometimes chall... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: So my girlfriend struggles with jealousy and her ex bf cheating on her. I was dumb and got nudes from other women while we were dating. I explained it to her it was my fault and it... more