DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I could use your help figuring out if I’m the a--hole or if my friend is overreacting and I don’t know if I trust Reddit to give me a good answer. ... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: So navigating the swamp pit that is modern is because all the chaos and contradictions especially as autistic virgin in his late 20s. From being told to women are the happiest when... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: My wife has a “work husband”, a co-worker she has a close and emotionally intimate friendship with. I normally wouldn’t be bothered, but I feel like it’s starting to cross lines th... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I saw your “Flurry of dating advice” post on Google, and one guy said pretty awkwardly that he was into Asian goth girls because he associates paleness with Japanese horror.... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Allow me to start with the caveat that I have had some relationships in the past (2, one of 2 months and one of 3 months), those were at this point more then 15 years ago... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I finally woke up out of dreamland a year ago mortified with the fact that, at the ripe old age of 21, that I am still a kissless virgin and haven’t been in a relationship with a g... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m an almost 39-year-old single straight white male. I was a late bloomer and never even kissed a girl until I was 22. Got my first “girlfriend” and lost the v-card at 24. After t... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I (45+ female) guess I am writing this letter from a place of loneliness. Maybe not so much in a romantic sense, but in the sense of just not knowing what to do. It might be that I... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m a 45-year-old man, and I can’t believe I’m admitting this, but I’ve been scammed by someone I met on a popular dating app that I won’t name because this is embarrassing enough ... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m a 27-year-old cisgender man and I’m in love with one of my closest female friends, but she doesn’t love me back. My friend and I have known each other for around a year and a h... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Long time reader here. I am sure that you have received this letter many times before however I have long been stuck in a dry spell which I can’t get out of, partly because of my m... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I have been approached by another man in my local autistic self-advocacy group. He knows I’m a kinkster and wants me to help him enter the scene so he can find a kinky girlfriend.... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m a 36-year-old man and I’ve been divorced for two months. My wife and I had been married for ten years and together since we were eighteen when we both had to agree that our rel... more