DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I was at a strip club the other day (my first time in a strip club) and i got a lap dance from a stripper. Afterwards we got to talking about stuff and she kept complaining about he... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I have an odd predicament. I don’t blame you if you can’t give me advice. I have no problem speaking to women. I, on normal occasions, have confidence oozing out my pores. The local... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m the nice guy, and I managed to score an amazing girlfriend. Just a few quick notes about me: I don’t watch porn, I don’t enjoy it. I’m about as monogamous as you can get, and wh... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I had a good, long think about what it is I want, after reading your column; in a girl, in a relationship and so on. I’ve pretty much known what kind of girl I’m attracted to but yo... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m dating this girl, yeah its not really a get the girl story, so I’m not sure you might have some advice for this, but I’m pretty hopeful cause its actually been pretty stressful.... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I am not a good looking person by any stretch of the imagination, at least not in the conventional sense of beauty. The thing is, when I’m using dating sites like OKCupid of Plenty ... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m a very average guy when it comes to dating, I feel. I go out on dates with girls once in a awhile. I don’t have any issues with asking girls out, but at the same time I’m not a ... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I am a 29 year old male in a 7 month relationship with a 27 year old female. As per attachment theory I’m an anxious preoccupied and my girlfriend is a Fearful Avoidant. My girlfrie... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m a 50-something married guy who as a result of medical issues has permanent erectile dysfunction (pills don’t work, injections don’t work) and as a result of a lot of dating trau... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m 46 and genderqueer. I used to be active in the local BDSM scene. It’s where I met my last sexual partner. It’s an old story: started as friends with benefits, I fell in love an... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m 34, never had a girlfriend, don’t really work or even have a post secondary education. I have been on two dates with the same women in 2010 which was basically two free dinners ... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I know you mostly help people get into relationships, but how do you get out of one? I (M, 28) have been with my girlfriend (F, 27) for three years now and I think it’s time to end ... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Long time reader and bona-fide straight woman here. Something struck me in your recent column, “What Makes A Man Attractive to Women?” The LW lists examples of “unattractive” men th... more