DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I need some help figuring out what to do, and I will be upfront and say I fracked up and I caused this crisis in my life and I know I was wrong, but I still don’t know what to do ne... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Dude, I just don’t know what to do. I’ve never been married, and I’ve only had a few long-term relationships in my 52 years. For a long time I didn’t even try to date at all, becaus... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’ve been on your site for quite a while, and found it super useful and relatable, with plenty of great advice. For reference, I’m a 24 year old male with zero relationship experien... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m curious what you and your readers think about the idea of lunch and a museum as a first date.... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: My first attempt to get into online dating perfectly matched one of my biggest fears about online dating: there’s no one around. The most basic search with a wide distance and age r... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: About 12 months ago I met a man. I instantly had a crush on him but I didn’t know why. It didn’t make sense. Whenever he was in the office, I was excited to see him. I would express... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I am a 21 year old girl with severe self esteem issues. I have a full face that is extremely plain and my smile is hideous. My hair is nice, except for the color, it’s a clingy oran... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m a 46 year old man and, for no obvious reason, I’ve never had sex. I’ve made out with three women my entire life. I’ve pretty much given up trying to lose it at this point.... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: This is my first time actually writing something like this, but I’ll do my best:... more

DOCTOR’S NOTE: Occasionally I get a letter that is less of an entry for Ask Dr. NerdLove and more of an a prompt for a longer form response — something between a Post-Mortem and one of my “how to” col... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: A few years ago I was in a relationship with a woman. We originally met through Tinder, but we did actually develop feelings for each other. Unfortunately, the timing of the relatio... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I appreciate everything you do for people trying to connect with other people.... more

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I have had a few friends since high school. We remained friends even after we graduated, went to different colleges, lived over an hour apart, after I moved out of state, but now I’... more