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Change Kids' Study Habits to Make Them Successful Students

A+ Advice for Parents by by Leanna Landsmann
by Leanna Landsmann
A+ Advice for Parents | March 19th, 2012

Q: My son, Josh, is a freshman who blows off his homework. He says he "works on it" in school, but he had several incompletes in his last grading period. He's no genius, but he didn't have this problem in middle school. How can I motivate him?

A: Many students hit a homework wall in high school. The study skills that allowed them to muddle through grades K-8 aren't strong enough to provide the structure and discipline needed for the harder course load in high school. There's no reason Josh can't get his act together -- genius or not, says Wes Crenshaw, Ph.D., a Lawrence, Kan., psychologist. Crenshaw, author of "Dear Dr. Wes: Real Life Advice for Parents of Teens" (Family Psychological Press, 2011), gets this question often.

Crenshaw tells parents to drop "homework" and institute something called "study time" each day, starting with early elementary school. "Study time is a defined period of the afternoon or evening when students work on learning something," he says. "Using the 10-minutes-of-study-per-grade rule of thumb, a second grader would have 20 minutes of study time. A ninth grader, 90."

If students don't have assignments from class or if they finished the work at school, they can work on something else, such as enrichment activities: re-reading a chapter, reading a book, solving a puzzle, practicing math problems, doing an art project. The idea is to promote learning for the sake of ... (BEGIN ITALS)learning(END ITALS).

In Josh's case, says Crenshaw, he might learn SAT vocabulary words or practice activities for the ACT test. "If you do this correctly," he says, "Josh will never again claim to have no homework because he'll have to use the study time one way or the other."

Do three things to give Josh structure, says Miranda Davis, a "teen co-author" with Crenshaw on "Dear Dr. Wes." First, help him set up a system for organizing and tracking assignments each week and over time. Just make sure it's Josh, not you, who ultimately takes responsibility. Second, stay in touch with teachers through email and meetings; make sure the incompletes don't continue. Third, use all available technologies to help Josh stay organized. She adds that some districts have software programs like PowerSchool to track grades and assignments.

If Josh does a full 90 minutes of study time Monday through Thursday and there are no more incompletes, then give him the weekend off, says Crenshaw. Save Sunday to get a smart start on the week.

"If he is getting the job done, let him have Sunday off too," he says.

If he needs help with study skills such as note taking and summarizing, Donna Goldberg's excellent book "The Organized Student: Teaching Children the Skills for Success in School and Beyond" (Touchstone, 2005) is an invaluable guide.

Any problems with compliance should result in removal of all of Josh's entertainment devices, advises Crenshaw.

"Playing the bad cop now will make him a stronger overall student," he says. "College is expensive. Give him the tools to succeed as a scholar. Ninety minutes a day isn't a big investment in what Josh stands to gain."

(Do you have a question about your child's education? Email it to Leanna@aplusadvice.com. Leanna Landsmann is an education writer who began her career as a classroom teacher. She has served on education commissions, visited classrooms in 49 states to observe best practices, and founded Principal for a Day in New York City.)

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Introducing Kids to Computer Science Outside the Classroom

A+ Advice for Parents by by Leanna Landsmann
by Leanna Landsmann
A+ Advice for Parents | March 12th, 2012

Q: I'm urging my son's high school to offer programming classes. Our state adopted the Common Core Standards and I thought that guidelines for teaching computer science would be among them ... not! If we want to prepare our children for the future, shouldn't we teach them programming languages?

A: Hank Pellissier, managing director of the Institute for Ethics and Emerging Technologies, agrees. "Computer programming ... may be the most important second language your child will ever learn. According to a growing number of experts, learning computer science will not only pave the way for future employment prospects -- job growth in this sector is booming -- but contribute to the U.S. economic recovery as well," blogs Pellissier at greatschools.org.

The Common Core Standards outline what K-12 students should learn in language arts and mathematics (www.corestandards.org). While the mathematics standards include skills essential to learn programming, they do not include programming itself. Few states include computer science as a core academic subject for graduation. Computer science teacher preparation and certification varies widely.

Yet more and more parents and educators agree with a recent report from the Computer Science Teachers Association, "Running on Empty: The Failure to Teach K-12 Computer Science in the Digital Age," which states: "The current state of computer science education is unacceptable at a time when computing is driving job growth and new scientific discovery."

Here's how you can work with your school to develop computer science courses. Check out the CSTA's comprehensive standards for K-12 computer science classes that provide a three-level framework. The first level, aimed at grades K-6, addresses computer science in the context of other academic subjects. In Level 2, grades 6-9, the concepts are taught either through other subjects or in discrete computer science courses.

Level 3 is divided into three separate courses: "Computer Science in the Modern World" offers content the CSTA believes should be mastered by all students. "Computer Science Principles" and "Topics in Computer Science" are intended for students with special interests in computer science and other computing careers (csta.acm.org).

If your school can't move fast enough, there are online courses your son could enroll in. Check out the free offerings at www.khanacademy.org. Look at area colleges, too. Many offer motivated high school students the opportunity to take courses on campus or online for credit.

Many companies have programs to mentor high school students and sustain interest in computer science and engineering, says Jeannette Wing, head of the computer science department at Carnegie Mellon University. She says all sectors -- health care, transportation, manufacturing -- not just the high-tech companies, have been seeking more and more expertise in computing.

Jedd Haberstro, a computer science major at Rochester Institute of Technology and an intern at Apple Inc., says that teacher training is a critical factor in keeping high school students' interest. He agrees that "having a deeper understanding of how computers work and how to control them to do what we want is essential as the world becomes more dependent on technology.

"Everyone headed into the workforce needs a general computing foundation to function in today's world. But does everyone need to know how to program? Maybe not. That's the software engineer's job -- to make the software reliable and easy to use."

(Do you have a question about your child's education? Email it to Leanna@aplusadvice.com. Leanna Landsmann is an education writer who began her career as a classroom teacher. She has served on education commissions, visited classrooms in 49 states to observe best practices, and founded Principal for a Day in New York City.)

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Reading Aloud Delights Kids and Parents Alike

A+ Advice for Parents by by Leanna Landsmann
by Leanna Landsmann
A+ Advice for Parents | March 5th, 2012

Q: Our school recently sent home a flier promoting the benefits of "reading aloud to your children every day of the year." My kids are 7 and 9. I read to them as preschoolers, but should I continue to do it?

A: Why not? There are a host of educational and emotional benefits. Thirty years ago, educator Jim Trelease outlined them in "The Read-Aloud Handbook." It became a surprise best-seller, now in its sixth edition.

Trelease explains, "Reading aloud to children sends a pleasure message to the child's brain." It seems to send pleasure messages to parents, too, by staking out quality time at the end of each busy day, all in the cause of helping a child learn to enjoy reading.

The results are a big deal. Kids who connect "reading" with "pleasure" are likely to want to read more, become acquainted with a range of authors and genres, and do better in school, says Trelease. "Conversely," he says, "children who don't enjoy reading, who don't read much, cannot get better at it."

Reading aloud to kids helps stir their imaginations, boosts listening skills, hones their ability to focus, and gives them a model of what fluent reading sounds like.

One of the most important benefits is vocabulary development, says Core Knowledge blogger Robert Pondiscio (blog.coreknowledge.org). "When students listen to a read-aloud, the cognitive bandwidth that might ordinarily be devoted to decoding is redirected toward the vocabulary and content of the reading," he says. "We learn vocabulary primarily in context, not by memorization. Thus, read-alouds build language proficiency by exposing kids to sophisticated vocabulary well above their independent reading level."

This is especially true when parents read nonfiction aloud to their children. "Parents often choose poems or fiction over nonfiction texts," says Pondiscio, and that's a lost opportunity. "Nonfiction often has rich, domain-specific vocabulary. You're more likely to hear words like 'orbit,' 'zenith,' 'solar,' or 'celestial,' in a book on astronomy."

In a biography of Jeremy Lin, for example, a listener would likely encounter terms such as "point guard" and "assists," and names of places such as Palo Alto, Harvard, Taiwan, China and Madison Square Garden.

"Read-alouds not only grow vocabulary, they are the best way to build critical background knowledge essential for later reading comprehension," says Pondiscio.

Reading aloud to children has benefits well past the primary grades. Pondiscio explains why: "Oral language competence precedes written language proficiency. We learn to speak and listen long before we read and write. Reading comprehension and written fluency typically don't catch up to oral competency until about eighth grade. A strong case can be made for read-alouds in building knowledge, vocabulary and fluency through middle school."

Start a new family habit to celebrate World Read Aloud Day, which is on March 7. A quick Internet search will surface many annotated lists to choose from. Common Sense Media includes a full range of choices for all age levels. Scholastic Parent & Child magazine just named the 100 Best Books for Kids (Scholastic.com/100books). Find sources of compelling nonfiction in magazines, newspapers and websites as well as books.

(Do you have a question about your child's education? Email it to Leanna@aplusadvice.com. Leanna Landsmann is an education writer who began her career as a classroom teacher. She has served on education commissions, visited classrooms in 49 states to observe best practices, and founded Principal for a Day in New York City.)

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