latestJune 03, 2021

My Niece Came Out To Me, and I Don’t Know How I Feel

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: My early 30’s niece told me last night that she’s bisexual. She also told me she’s involved with a couple (M&F). Apparently she told her mom (my only sister) a couple months ago, an... more

May 25, 2021

What Do I Do About My Girlfriend’s Bad Attitude?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: My girlfriend and I (a lesbian) have been together for almost 2 years now. I love her very much she understands me better then anyone and I can’t see my life with anyone else… but I... more

May 05, 2021

I Have A Great Life… So Why Do I Feel Like A Loser?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’ve been reading your columns on and off for about ten years now. I’ll admit that I often sneer at some of the advice because it seems so far-fetched or inapplicable to myself. But... more

April 30, 2021

My Brother Is Becoming an Incel. How Do I Help Him?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Recently my brother and I got into an argument. I was talking about the new Zack Snyder’s Netflix film Army of the Dead and my brother mentioned he did not like said director. When ... more

March 26, 2021

I Don’t Know How To Help My Husband With His Mental Illness

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I am writing to you about my husband, who is dealing with some serious mental health challenges. I don’t really feel like I have anyone else to talk to about this, because everyone ... more

January 04, 2021

Why Won’t My Husband Treat His ADHD?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I first want to express my appreciation for the work you do in helping people become their best versions of themselves. I saw one of your YouTube videos explaining your journey with... more

December 25, 2020

How Do I AVOID Having a Relationship Like My Parents’?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I have been an avid reader of your blog for a few years and have finally mustered the courage to ask for advice. I really enjoy the laidback approach to answering some really seriou... more

December 17, 2020

My Friend Is In An Abusive Relationship. How Can I Help Her?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m not sure if this is the kind of question to take on, because it’s not about me specifically, but about my brother (30) and his girlfriend (29). They’ve been in a relationship fo... more

November 03, 2020

I Was Abused. How Do I Keep My Trauma From Affecting My Dating Life?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’ve been thinking about an idea that appeals to me, and wondering if there are some deeper lessons that can be learned from it. I would appreciate a qualified second opinion on the... more

November 02, 2020

How Can I Help My Son With His First Break Up?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: This might sound odd, but my son is 17 and is apparently going through his first big breakup of his first serious relationship. He’s been dating her since his freshman year, and she... more

October 16, 2020

How Do I Fix My Awkward Relationship With My Parents?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: When this pandemic got bad, the company I work for allowed us to work from home; as a result, I decided to move back to my parents’ house. I’m an only child and I usually visit them... more

July 13, 2020

Am I The Jerk For Never Wanting to See My Mother Again?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Thank you for the awesome work that you do. So many of us don’t have people in our corner that truly understand family dynamics.... more

June 26, 2020

What Do I Do About My Racist Family?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m a 20-year-old student in an interracial relationship. In the days pre-lockdown, my girlfriend flew into NYC from Paris while I flew into Connecticut from SoFl. Because we hadn’t... more

June 15, 2020

Should I Cut Ties With My Family

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: First off, let me say that you are doing God’s work. Giving people heartfelt advice when they’re feeling low or discouraged or at the end of their rope or even simply just confused ... more

January 29, 2020

I Think My Sister’s Dating an Abuser

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: This isn’t so much a romantic issue as it is a dealing with a jerk issue.... more

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