DEAR ABBY: My four wonderful kids want to give their father and me a 50th wedding anniversary celebration next year. The problem is, everyone knows I'm an introvert who does not like going to parties. The thought of being the main focus of a big gathering fills me with dread.
My husband, who is outgoing, says I should let them do it for us if it will make them happy. He would probably enjoy it, but for me it will just be something to suffer through. I'd rather do something with just the two of us -- like see a Broadway show. What do you think? Do I have to do this, even though I don't want to? -- ROSE OF TEXAS
DEAR ROSE: I don't think you should have to suffer, but a compromise might be the solution to your problem. Instead of a large gathering, why not have a family celebration with your children, their spouses and your grandchildren? And then, because you would like to see a Broadway show -- go to New York for a "second honeymoon."