latestNovember 12, 2022

Old Romance Rekindled Amid Current Marriage

DEAR ABBY: I have been in love with a man for 34 years. I was married to him once, then divorced him because of drugs. I have been remarried for eight years now, to a wonderful man who is good to me, ... more

November 09, 2022

Tears of Grief Come for Pets, But Not for People

DEAR ABBY: I don't cry when friends or close relatives pass away, which embarrasses me and makes me feel guilty. I do feel empathy, though. I cry only when a pet has died. What's wrong with me? -- DRY... more

November 08, 2022

Couple's Divorce Still a Raw Subject After 10-Plus Years

DEAR ABBY: My parents were married for 22 years. They separated in 2007, and by 2008 the divorce was final. While this was a good thing for both of them, the fallout from their marriage was intense. I... more

November 04, 2022

Widow Essentially Disappears After Beginning New Romance

DEAR ABBY: My dear friend "Rose's" husband died five years ago, and since then she has struggled with grief and loneliness. She immersed herself in her church, friends and family. We usually talked th... more

November 01, 2022

Pair Dating After Losses Aren't on Same Timeline

DEAR ABBY: I have been seeing a man I'll call "Ken" for six months. We are both widowed. It has been two years for him and three for me. My husband was my childhood sweetheart, and I cherished the gro... more

October 28, 2022

Husband Is Hiding Texts From Friend's Widow

DEAR ABBY: This woman keeps texting my husband. Her husband died last year, and she has been staying in contact with my husband. I know he initiates the messaging most of the time. He also deletes her... more

October 27, 2022

Depressed Mom Can't Overcome Grief About Her Empty Nest

DEAR ABBY: I've been married for 22 years. Our son is leaving for Marine boot camp the day after his 18th birthday. He will be a third-generation Marine, and we are extremely proud of him. He will be ... more

October 25, 2022

Aunt's Broken Promises Feed a Years-Long Grudge

DEAR ABBY: My aunt is a money-hungry, conniving thief. From the time I was a baby, she always bought me gifts. But when her parents (my grandparents) died, she literally stole more than $200,000 from ... more

October 23, 2022

Woman Exhausted by Relatives' Hurtful Drama

DEAR ABBY: While visiting a family member after the death of their loved one, I was informed that instead of grieving, they sat around and talked about me. I was told they claimed I hadn't visited fam... more

October 23, 2022

Dad Reverses Course on Gift After Political Disagreement

DEAR ABBY: For my 50th birthday 10 years ago, my father, with whom I have had a tumultuous relationship, gave me cherished rings as gifts. One was my grandmother's and the other was my grandfather's, ... more

October 15, 2022

Late Father's Sons Ask Friends To Plan Memorial

DEAR ABBY: I have a friend who had been ill for some time. Three years ago, two of his adult sons moved in with him because they'd been kicked out of their mom's house. They never got jobs or paid ren... more

October 04, 2022

Couple's Politics Stand Out in Current Locale

DEAR ABBY: I moved to a conservative state to be close to my aging parents and become closer with my siblings and extended family. After six years, my parents and a sister have passed on, and I'm wond... more

October 03, 2022

Woman Discovers a Pair of Siblings She's Never Known

DEAR ABBY: I am a 49-year-old woman who never had a father in my life. He was gone shortly after my mother announced she was pregnant. When she contacted him via his family to let him know I was born,... more

September 22, 2022

Granddaughter Disturbed by Grandmother's Early Work

DEAR ABBY: My grandma died when I was 7. She was my favorite person, and I adored her. She played with me when no one else had the time, taught me how to bake, told me stories and didn't care that I w... more

September 22, 2022

A Year Into Marriage, Husband Takes Stock

DEAR ABBY: My wife died two years ago. I met a woman shortly afterward. We dated for a year, shared the same hobbies and were very intimate. We were inseparable. Now, after a year of marriage, we don'... more

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