DEAR HARRIETTE: I suffer from very sweaty palms. Regardless of the temperature or environment I am in, this embarrassing condition follows me. As you can understand, I hate introducing myself to people because of the expected handshake. Is there any way to keep etiquette standards while not wiping my sweat on the other person's palm? -- Soaked, Richmond, Virginia

DEAR SOAKED: For health reasons, I want to encourage you to get a physical. On occasion, sweaty palms could point to health concerns that you should have checked out. Beyond that, get practical. Keep a handkerchief in your pocket, and wipe your hand briefly before offering it to shake -- even at impromptu moments. Before going into the public, wipe your hands, then use a bit of talcum powder on them. Powder can help to absorb some of the excess moisture on your hands.

If you cannot figure out how to get them dry, resort to alternative handshakes. Depending upon the circumstances, you might use the now-popular fist bump, which keeps your palm covered. You could nod and do a slight bow. Yes, these things could feel awkward, but people often figure out alternative ways to engage people in social rituals that can work for them. You can get creative and find your own greeting that keeps everybody dry!

DEAR HARRIETTE: I used to be very chubby. My family and friends teased me incessantly. I think my family made their comments to try to get me to eat better and be healthier. My friends? Forget about it. They were just mean. Anyhow, now I exercise for at least an hour every day. I'm just 17, but it's already paying off. I see real results, even though I have a long way to go.

My sister thinks it is funny to videotape me while I work out to scare me. She posts these videos so her friends can see, and they embarrass me. Sometimes I am not wearing a shirt! I am a boy, so the standards are different, but I still don't know how to get her to stop doing this. The madder I get, the funnier she thinks it is. -- Losing Patience, Silver Spring, Maryland

DEAR LOSING PATIENCE: It's time to engage a parent. Yes, I said it! If your sister is unwilling to draw the line between public and private even after you have made it clear that you do not want to be filmed or shared on social media and she does it anyway -- in your home -- you have to exercise your privacy rights with the leading authorities -- your parents.

Whoever you engage for help, go for it now. You should be able to exercise in the privacy of your home wearing whatever you choose without fear of being publicly humiliated. If your adults don't help you, start locking your door or finding other places to work out.

(Harriette Cole is a lifestylist and founder of DREAMLEAPERS, an initiative to help people access and activate their dreams. You can send questions to askharriette@harriettecole.com or c/o Universal Uclick, 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106.)

DEAR HARRIETTE: How do you tell someone you recently met that they have food lodged in their teeth? This dilemma happened to me yesterday with the hostess of a holiday party, and I ended up staying silent. Would I have embarrassed her if I had spoken up? -- Broccoli, Meet Teeth, Cincinnati

DEAR BROCCOLI, MEET TEETH: Put yourself in that person's situation. Wouldn't you want to know that you needed to clean your teeth rather than continuing to engage people all evening -- as host, no less? Of course. That means, under nearly all circumstances, it is a great idea to speak to someone, whether you know the person or not, to indicate that she or he has food stuck in the teeth.

The tricky part is figuring out a discreet way of getting the message across. Attempt to get the person's attention, and use hand gestures to point to the teeth. Ask the person if you can have a private word for a moment. Walk up to the person and deliver the message quietly. If you are sitting across the table from someone, just say "You have food in your teeth." As awkward as it may seem in the moment, trust that it is better to speak up soon to help the person avoid further embarrassment down the line.

DEAR HARRIETTE: My wife hates the band I want to play at a party we're hosting. I have been listening to this band for decades and have even taken her to multiple concerts. I always thought she liked them until she started putting up a huge resistance. She said that she can be subjected to it because she loves me, but that her family shouldn't have to suffer through punk rock music. I can't believe she never told me this before! Does this kill all hopes of my favorite band playing? -- Let Them Boogie, Dallas

DEAR LET THEM BOOGIE: The sad thing here is that in her effort to be supportive of you, your wife didn't create the space for the two of you to have an honest conversation about musical choices years ago. You could have learned a lot about each other's interests rather than experiencing a one-sided musical engagement for so long.

That said, you should thank your wife for being so accommodating for so long. Also, tell her you regret that you did not know earlier, as the two of you may have expanded your musical tastes together. If your wife really is repulsed by your favorite band, you probably shouldn't bring them into your shared life. That is, unless you can import two bands -- one that she likes, and your faves. More important is for you to talk about what your interests are and how you can marry them in the months and years to come.

(Harriette Cole is a lifestylist and founder of DREAMLEAPERS, an initiative to help people access and activate their dreams. You can send questions to askharriette@harriettecole.com or c/o Universal Uclick, 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106.)

DEAR HARRIETTE: My teenager is in his "musician phase," as I call it. He has been plucking away at a guitar and singing for weeks now. He is a sweet boy, but he is an untrained musician. This has been driving the whole family nuts. I want him to keep it down, but he told me he's writing a love song for a girl. I am torn between supporting him and saving my sanity. Can I banish him to the garage without seeming too harsh? -- Serenading, Detroit

DEAR SERENADING: This is why we have garages! Seriously, you have every right to manage the noise in your home, even as you work to support your son. Give him hours when he cannot play because he will disturb the people inside the house and the neighbors. If you can offer him the garage as a respite, fantastic. Just be sure that he can play in there with the doors closed and not create too much sound that filters into the neighborhood. Some families have soundproofed their garages in order to keep the peace.

DEAR HARRIETTE: My daughter graduated from college last year. Finally, she has found a job and plans on moving out. She informed me that she is taking her bedroom furniture with her. She will be moving into her own apartment -- her first time being on her own. She has a job, which is great, but it doesn't pay that much.

Does this mean I have to buy her a whole new bedroom set to fill her room? I am OK with her taking the furniture to save costs, but I don't know what this will mean for her soon-to-be-empty room. -- Still Her Room, St. Louis

DEAR STILL HER ROOM: Congratulations on this next step in your daughter's maturity. I'm sure this is both exciting and daunting for both of you. Transitions can be tough because you don't know what will happen next. It's good that you are thinking about it all now.

It is very generous of you to allow your daughter to take her furniture. If that truly is what works best for her and for your home, continue to co-sign on that. You can also consider a couple of different alternatives. For example, you could buy her affordable bedroom furniture from IKEA or another starter furniture company. If you are fine with the furniture removal, you can also consider what you want to do with her room after she's gone. Perhaps you want to turn it into a study or den. You could add a sofa bed in case your daughter or others come to visit, so they have a place to spend the night. Consider all your options. Be clear that your daughter can take only her bedroom furniture if you allow her to do so. Establishing boundaries now will be important so you don't end up with your daughter later swiping random household items without your permission. Trust that it happens to many families. Start now to control yours.

(Harriette Cole is a lifestylist and founder of DREAMLEAPERS, an initiative to help people access and activate their dreams. You can send questions to askharriette@harriettecole.com or c/o Universal Uclick, 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106.)