DEAR ABBY: I'm a 19-year-old woman, hardworking and married to my best friend. Life is amazing!
So what's my problem? I burn out of jobs quickly. I'll start a job and absolutely love it, but within six months the things that I once loved about the job start to drive me crazy. Within a year, I hate my job and put in my two-week notice. It's not that I have problems finding jobs -- I'm well-groomed, speak well and I'm enthusiastic.
I have recently considered enlisting in the Air Force. (My husband is on active duty.) I am absolutely thrilled about it, but I'm afraid I'll eventually start hating my job and it's something I'll be stuck with. How do I overcome this? -- WANTS TO ENLIST
DEAR WANTS TO ENLIST: Please stop and re-read your letter. Are you aware that you're talking about work the way a schoolgirl talks about romance -- blind, grand passion until reality sets in, then on to the next one?
A job isn't like that. While it can be rewarding on many levels, when the novelty fades it is still work. There are good days and ones that are less so, co-workers who are a pleasure and some who are a challenge. Sometimes it's stimulating and sometimes it's an effort.
Years ago there was a letter in this column that read: "Dear Abby: I joined the Navy to see the world. I've seen it. Now how do I get out?" I don't want a letter like that from you.
Military life is rewarding, but it can also be demanding, frustrating and dangerous. It requires making a commitment and sticking with it even after the going gets tough. With your short attention span and low tolerance for frustration, I don't recommend you take any job that requires a signed contract guaranteeing you won't leave.