DEAR ABBY: For the past three months, I have had a long-distance relationship with a man I met through an Internet dating Web site.
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He claims he's not interested in meeting anyone else, but has not yet deleted his Internet profile. He still receives e-mail from women -- and has continued to meet them -- all the while insisting he wants a serious relationship with me!
This situation is making me very uncomfortable. While he says all the right things, I cannot completely trust him.
When I confronted him, he said these women are just looking for friends (oh, really?), and he feels sure about where to "draw the line."
What do you think, Abby? Should I trust him? -- HANGING IN THERE IN TUCSON
DEAR HANGING IN THERE: No. You are looking for an exclusive relationship, while he is still looking -- period. Actions speak louder than words, and it's clear that he's not leveling with you.