DEAR ABBY: Please help. I fell in love with a married man. He claimed he loved me. My husband caught us. He hates me now and has filed for divorce. My lover called it quits and ran back to his wife.
Can I sue my lover for breach of promise because he PROMISED to get a divorce and marry me? -- DESTROYED IN THE U.S.A.
DEAR DESTROYED: I recommend against initiating such a lawsuit. Instead, count your blessings that you haven't been sued for alienation of affection.