DEAR ABBY: Bingo players, beware! What does your husband or wife do while you are playing bingo five nights a week?
My friend told me she saw my husband, who is 71, get into a car with a "hussy" who is about 50. I decided to see if there was any truth to her story, so after my husband and I had dinner one night, I had him drop me off at the bingo parlor. He said he was going home, so I said I would ride home with a friend.
I had hired a detective who waited in a parking lot nearby and we followed my husband. Soon he parked his car and got into hers. What we saw made me ill, but I have never confronted him with my knowledge. Our religion frowns on divorce, so I just pray the old goat wakes up before he kills himself. He has broken my heart and if I were younger, he would be following me in the dust.
Do you think I did the right thing to quit bingo? -- B-9 in TENNESSEE
DEAR B-9: Only if giving up your game forced your husband to give up the game HE was playing.