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FOR RELEASE FRIDAY, MAY 29, 2020

Ask Someone Else's Mom by by Susan Writer
by Susan Writer
Ask Someone Else's Mom | May 29th, 2020

Gamer Lost in Space Leaves GF on Earth

DEAR SOMEONE ELSE’S MOM: When I first met my boyfriend in college, I thought it was kind of cute how he and his buddies got sucked into their gaming. To be honest, it gave me a chance to keep on track with my course load, which was a lot heavier than his.

Now that we’re living together, it’s really getting on my nerves when all he wants to do is sit in the spare bedroom and either play his own games or follow esports. I get that he works hard at a very stressful job, but so do I.

I don’t want to break up, but I’m considering trying a “games or me” ultimatum on him. My worry is, what if it backfires? --- TIRED OF BEING SECOND FIDDLE

DEAR TIRED OF BEING SECOND FIDDLE: If you haven’t had an open conversation with your boyfriend about what you’re feeling, then you’re doing both of you a disservice. It doesn’t need to be an ultimatum, but he should know how much the constant gaming bothers you. You may find he thought the current arrangement was working for you both, given that it worked well in the past.

If, however, after you’ve hashed things out, you continue to be frustrated by the amount of time your boyfriend devotes to his gaming, then you might want to seriously start considering how much of a future you two have together as a couple.

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FOR RELEASE THURSDAY, MAY 28, 2020

Ask Someone Else's Mom by by Susan Writer
by Susan Writer
Ask Someone Else's Mom | May 28th, 2020

LW Not Ready to Dine Out with Family

DEAR SOMEONE ELSE’S MOM: My family has been blessed so far in not having any of us infected by the coronavirus, and I really want to keep it that way. We have not so much as had takeout from our favorite local restaurant while they were only offering curbside pick-up. Now they are open for a few hours a day, with only a limited number of tables available.

Our parents’ anniversary is in a couple of weeks, and my mom and dad want us to all go out to celebrate at the restaurant. There are six in our family, so we would be allowed a table, but I am so scared we will come home with the virus. I do not get why my mom and dad will not wait until we know it is completely safe to eat out again. Is it wrong for me to ask them to do that? --- NERVOUS DAUGHTER

DEAR NERVOUS DAUGHTER: Your desire to be cautious is completely understandable, and you should share your concerns with your parents, if you haven’t yet.

Since we’re in fairly unchartered territory with this virus, a lot is being played by ear, working with the best information available at the time decisions are being made. I would hope and guess the reopening of restaurants in your area is being closely regulated and monitored, but if you feel uncomfortable about venturing out at this point, then maybe your folks will consider postponing their special dinner. After all, it doesn’t seem likely it will be a very enjoyable event for you if you’re tense and worried the whole time you should be celebrating.

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Ex Moves into the Same Building

Ask Someone Else's Mom by by Susan Writer
by Susan Writer
Ask Someone Else's Mom | May 26th, 2020

DEAR SOMEONE ELSE’S MOM: As I was taking out the trash the other night, I ran into an old flame in the lobby of my building. Even though we have not seen each other in years, it was still awkward, especially because things did not end well with us. He could not stop lying to me about big stuff, little stuff, and pretty much every time he opened his mouth.

When he told me he was moving into my building, I didn’t know if I should believe him or not, but I saw his name on a mailbox, so I guess he was telling the truth — for once.

I truly have no love left for this man, but I cannot entirely get past my loathing of him. I do not want him to have the satisfaction of seeing me get rattled when we meet, as we are sure to do. There is a decent gym in the building, and the older units, like mine, have not had washers and dryers installed yet. Besides myself, I know some of my friends will s##t a brick when they see him. One in particular hated him from the get-go.

How do I bump into this guy without letting him know he still drives me nuts? --- FUTURE BAD NEIGHBOR

DEAR FUTURE BAD NEIGHBOR: Why let him see he still gets your blood boiling, and not in a good way? Simply smile whenever you see him. Be polite, brief, and don’t allow him to start any conversations. Fill your friends in on the plan.

You were there first, and you should clearly demonstrate that as far as you’re concerned, he’s as important to you as the lobby wallpaper.

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