latestOctober 29, 2021

How Can I Ever Trust The Men I Date?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Last year, I got into a FWB situation that got really messy, and I’m having a hard time moving on. I met this guy through an app, we hit it off, and hooked up. The sex was surprisin... more

October 27, 2021

When Should I Talk To My Date About Sex?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m a trans guy venturing out into dating women for the first time since I started transition. One of the advantages of being a trans dude is that we can tailor our genitalia to our... more

October 18, 2021

How Do I Bring The Spark Back To My Relationship?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Question about sex coming your way! I’m 31/F and I’ve been in a happy and healthy relationship for the last 10 months or so. I love this guy–he’s sweet, caring, we have so much in c... more

October 15, 2021

Did Too Much Porn Give Me Erectile Dysfunction?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I know your stance on porn already, but I was hoping to take it a step further and ask what you think about porn-induced erectile dysfunction (PIED)... more

October 14, 2021

How Can I Tell if Someone Is Just Playing Games?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m a gay man. In my tennis group there is a 32 year old guy that I find very attractive, who I have known for about 3 years. We were never close friends, but rather just friendly a... more

October 12, 2021

Do I Have The Wrong Personality For Casual Sex?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: So I just finished reading your recent post debunking the idea that women only want to date rich buff alpha bros. I completely agreed with the point you made, but it reminded me of ... more

September 15, 2021

How Do I Tell My Dates That I Want to Wait To Have Sex?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m hoping for a bit of advice. I’m a single woman in my late 30s. I’m a big nerd, but I can also talk sports fluently. I have a great job that pays well, a nice apartment all to my... more

September 03, 2021

My Boyfriend Used To Hook Up With My Son And I Don’t Know What To Do…

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I recently met a man on a dating site. He’s younger but I think I’m over that part. When we first started talking, when I asked his last name it sounded familiar and I asked if he h... more

August 24, 2021

My ED is Getting In The Way Of My Love Life

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: First a little bit of background: I’ m a CIS male, 45. And I’ve suffered from ED since… Well, always. I have been able to complete sexual intercourse with penetration, but is very r... more

August 18, 2021

Why Am I Struggling With Online Dating?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: So, I’m a 34 year old lesbian in a somewhat unusual situation. I’ve been happily married to my wife for the last five years; however, she’s asexual. Fortunately, we’re poly, and so ... more

August 13, 2021

Am I Supposed To Be Angry With My Husband About Our Sex Life?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: So, I have a husband that I recently married and I love him dearly. We both have autism and have dated eight years before we got married and he wanted to wait until marriage which I... more

August 02, 2021

What Do I Do About My Sexless Relationship?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. He is so caring and thoughtful. He is affectionate and always finding ways to show me he loves me. He splits household responsibil... more

July 21, 2021

How Do I Find Love as An Older Virgin?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m a 46 year old man and, for no obvious reason, I’ve never had sex. I’ve made out with three women my entire life. I’ve pretty much given up trying to lose it at this point.... more

July 19, 2021

What Does It REALLY Take To Find Casual Sex?

DOCTOR’S NOTE: Occasionally I get a letter that is less of an entry for Ask Dr. NerdLove and more of an a prompt for a longer form response — something between a Post-Mortem and one of my “how to” col... more

July 15, 2021

How Long Does It Take to Decide That You Want A Relationship?

DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I appreciate everything you do for people trying to connect with other people.... more

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