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by Abigail Van Buren

Is Love Without Chemistry Still Love?

DEAR ABBY: Can you really learn to love someone you don't find physically attractive? -- TWITTER FAN OF ABBY

DEAR TWITTER FAN: You may learn to love the person for his or her finer qualities, but I don't think you can "learn" to find someone physically attractive if the chemistry simply isn't there.

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