DEAR ABBY: What is the protocol when someone is asking to see his mother's will while she is still in good health? -- PONDERING IN PENNSYLVANIA
DEAR PONDERING: The two most difficult subjects to discuss are death and money, both of which come into play when the topic of wills comes up. A wise and compassionate parent will discuss this with her (or his) children so there won't be any surprises when the eventual happens.