DEAR ABBY: I am the parent of a child with special needs. To an outsider he looks different; adults and children stare at him when we're out.
My son is not aware of their impolite behavior, but I am -- and it really irks me. What should I say to these insensitive people? -- BOILING MAD IN NEW JERSEY
DEAR BOILING MAD: I don't think you should say anything. It is not unusual for individuals of every age to do a double take when they see someone -- or something -- that is "different." Of course staring is impolite, but unless someone makes a remark or asks a question about your son, you should ignore the person.