DEAR ABBY: My husband, "Jeff," is 35 and I'm 41. We've been married 10 years.
Jeff is an excellent provider. He spends quality time with the children and will do anything I ask.
I have only one problem. Every gift occasion -- anniversary, Christmas, Valentine's Day or birthday -- Jeff buys me an outfit I consider trashy. His most recent gift was a black leather miniskirt and bustier, black mesh stockings and thigh-high boots. When I asked Jeff where he expected me to wear that stuff, he said, "On a date with me -- or in our bedroom."
Is it healthy for Jeff to have those fantasies? -- NOT A SLUT IN MISSISSIPPI
DEAR NOT: Oui, oui, Madame -- as long as the fantasies include you!