DEAR ABBY: My husband is helping me to write thank-you notes for the wedding presents we recently received. Yesterday, we learned that his great-uncle has passed away.
Should we address the thank-you note to just his great-aunt or to both of them? The gift was from both of them. -- STUMPED IN PENNSYLVANIA
DEAR STUMPED: The thank-you note should be addressed to the surviving relative. However, it would be thoughtful to include a mention in your note that their gift will be especially treasured because it came from both of them.