DEAR ABBY: I know the world reads your column. I'd be so grateful if you would print my letter.
Why is it that when a person becomes a senior citizen, cashiers, hairdressers, everyone starts calling us "Sweetie," "Hon," "Honey," "Sweetheart" -- one even called me "Kitten"! It really upsets me and other seniors.
Is this something that comes with age, and is there something I could say to them? -- OHIO GRANNY
DEAR GRANNY: The names are intended as terms of endearment. They are far nicer than some of the names people are being called today. However, since you find the designations demeaning, inform these well-meaning people that you prefer to be addressed by your name only.