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by Abigail Van Buren

Good Laugh Goes a Long Way in Healthy, Loving Relationship

DEAR ABBY: If you think your husband is cheating with another woman, do you think it's all right for the wife to ask the woman if she's having an affair with her husband? -- WIFE OF A WANDERING HUSBAND

DEAR WIFE: Absolutely. And who knows? She may be delighted to give you chapter and verse.