DEAR ABBY: I am a 19-year-old, taking a year off between high school and college. I work at a university to which I would like to apply.
How do I go about asking my boss's boss for a recommendation? I don't work with him, but we know each other and talk occasionally -- mostly during coffee breaks. Lately, we've even been exchanging books and newspaper articles.
Can you offer any advice? -- SHY GUY IN ST. LOUIS
DEAR SHY GUY: To be asked to write a letter of recommendation is a compliment. It means that you think the person is important enough that the recommendation will have clout.
During your next coffee break, tell your boss's boss that you are planning to return to school next year, and would appreciate it if he/she would give you a recommendation. The person will probably be flattered and agree to do it.