DEAR ABBY: My hair is bright red. I don't dye it. People frequently ask me if it is natural, and I tell them it is. Many times they refuse to believe me, and argue or ask my family or friends if I am lying.
I think these questions are invasive and unnecessary. Do you think it is acceptable to ask someone if her hair color is natural? -- CARROT TOP
DEAR CARROT TOP: If the color is unusual, it may be intended as a left-handed compliment. However, when the reply is affirmative, to insist that it is not is abrasive and insulting.