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by Abigail Van Buren

Pregnant Girl Wants to Know if Adoption Is Right Choice

DEAR ABBY: I just had to respond to "Abby Fan in Arizona," the 71-year-old widow who refused to become sexually involved with a man because of her "dropped stomach" or "apron," as she called it.

Years ago, there was a saying that went: Look but don't touch. A widow and widower in our town were getting to know each other, and when the situation began to get a little more intimate, the fellow said, "I know -- look but don't touch."

To which she responded, "Touch all you want -- just don't look!" -- A FLORIDA FAN