DEAR ABBY: A year ago I agreed to be in the wedding of a former college roommate. Our relationship is not as close today as it was when she asked me. We've had some disagreements and seldom talk to each other now.
Please tell me how I can gracefully get out of being in her wedding. I know that she has several friends who are now closer to her than I am.
Please hurry your answer. -- PERPLEXED
DEAR PERPLEXED: Call her immediately and tell her exactly what you have told me. Considering the circumstances, I think she will appreciate your candor.