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by Abigail Van Buren

Wife Escapes From Husband Before Death Could Them Part

CONFIDENTIAL TO LOST AND HELPLESS, THE 14-YEAR-OLD GIRL WHO WROTE FROM TORONTO, CANADA: You have done nothing wrong, so, please, do not be embarrassed to tell your parents -- or a school nurse! Your brother needs help immediately, or he may become a full-fledged child molester. You did not give me your name or address or I would return the money you sent. I cannot accept it. My advice is free. Please write again.