DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m a 26-year-old woman with limited relationship experience. My only relationship occurred when I was 16 years old. Since then, I’ve been on dates and experienced one-sided infatua... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I was previously in a two year toxic relationship. My ex cheated on me and it was me continuously chasing something I knew would never love me the way I loved him. I dealt with cont... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I just can’t seem to find a fully-grown, functioning adult of a man. Instead I always seem to attract man children who take advantage of my kindness and still expect to be coddled a... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: So, my bf and I have been dating for, maybe… 4 months. I was happy because this is the first normal, stable relationship I’ve had. And then one day, he decided he wanted to be poly.... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m 22M and I have a crush on a woman (23F) from my university and we were quite good friends when, for some reason, I started developing feelings for her after I broke up with my ... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I hope this email finds you well. I’ve been an avid follower of your insightful advice on relationships and dating, and I find your perspective immensely valuable. I am reaching out... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m reaching out to you regarding a situation that is impacting my social life at law school. I’m a 32 year-old-male, an older student, and the issue regards some of my former frien... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I have a weird feeling and I want to explain this. I’m casually dating a girl who I really enjoy and I think about her a lot. That’s good right? Well, when we were talking about our... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I think I know what my issue is, and that it is unfixable, but I’m taking some advice from others, and I saw your advice to others, where I thought I’d give the advice a chance.... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Not sure if you’ve gotten these sorts of questions before, just found your site – but I have what I think might be a slightly different question from most.... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I find myself in a bit of a weird place. I’ve just ended a long stint as a caretaker for an ill parent, and with this newfound lease on life, I’ve been putting myself out there a lo... more