DEAR HARRIETTE: My girlfriend is moving to New York City to pursue her modeling career. I am so proud of her and want her to go because her agency thinks that she may be able to be booked by some big fashion shows -- even the Victoria's Secret fashion show, which is a great way to make a name for herself. But I’m scared that I’m going to lose her since I’m staying Los Angeles. How can I keep things going strong from far away? -- Uneasy Boyfriend, Los Angeles
DEAR UNEASY BOYFRIEND: There is always a chance that a long-distance relationship won't work, no matter what the reason is for the distance. If your girlfriend becomes a successful model, she won’t have a ton of free time on her hands because the business can be extremely demanding. If you two stay connected, albeit from afar, you might be able to go the distance. The biggest change may end up being what she is exposed to possibly shifting her interests. Only time will tell, but you are right to encourage her to pursue her dreams.
(Harriette Cole is a lifestylist and founder of DREAMLEAPERS, an initiative to help people access and activate their dreams. You can send questions to askharriette@harriettecole.com or c/o Andrews McMeel Syndication, 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106.)