Say This, Not That by Ilana Kukoff and Jessica Huddy

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Helping My Overwhelmed Daughter

Dear Ilana and Jess: My 13-year-old daughter gets overwhelmed easily and I want to help her. What can I say that will be useful in the moment? – Josephine Dear Josephine: When someone is escalated,... continue

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Back to School Shopping on A Tight Budget

Dear Ilana and Jess: My kids want to look cool as they head back into school, but there are limits to what we can afford. How can I help them look their best without breaking the bank? Dear Milo: W... continue

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Back to School Blues

Dear Ilana and Jess: My kids dread the start of the year every September, even though ultimately both of them enjoy school. How can I help lower their anxiety? – Teri Dear Teri: Back to School Blue... continue

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Getting Organized at College

Dear Ilana and Jess: I’m starting my sophomore year of college. If I’m being honest, I am super excited to have my space and dorm back, but, I didn’t exactly organize it well last semester. How can... continue

Say This, Not That by Ilana Kukoff and Jessica Huddy

Say This, Not That in Advice

Helping My Overwhelmed Daughter

Say This, Not That in Advice

Back to School Shopping on A Tight Budget

Say This, Not That in Advice

Back to School Blues

Say This, Not That in Advice

Getting Organized at College

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