Looking for Mr. or Ms. Right? Your dog or cat can help
By Kim Campbell Thornton
Andrews McMeel Syndication
Remember the meet-cute scene in "101 Dalmatians," where the couple's dogs bring them together? It happens in real life, too.
Molly McNamara of Lyons, Colorado, met her husband-to-be, Jeff McGlynn, at the obedience class she was attending with her dog. It was love at first sight -- for her dog.
"My dog was so bananas for him that he wouldn't pay attention after Jeff arrived," she says. "At first I used to just get mad when he and his dog showed up because my well-behaved 1-year-old bearded collie, Max, would lose his mind and drag me across the room to see them. So, clearly, the dog knew first."
It took six months before the pair started dating, with many of the dates involving taking their dogs hiking or to the beach. McNamara discovered later that McGlynn was staying in the class only to see her. His Saint Bernard was already well-behaved and didn't really need the practice.
"Introduction by dog" is a time-honored method of finding true love, and now science has confirmed its efficacy. In their study "The Roles of Pet Dogs and Cats in Human Courtship and Dating," published in the quarterly journal Anthrozoos, researchers -- who surveyed more than 1,200 Match.com users -- found that 35 percent of women and 26 percent of men said they had been more attracted to someone because he or she owned a pet.
Men are more likely to use a pet -- generally a dog -- as "date bait," with 22 percent admitting to the tactic. Only 6 percent of women said they had used a pet to attract potential dates.
Women, on the other hand, are more likely to rely on their dogs and cats as barometers of a date's trustworthiness. Nearly half of the women responding said they judged dates based on how the person responded to their pet, and 76 percent evaluated dates based on whether their pets liked the person.
"My dogs have helped me see who is and isn't a good match based on how the guys responded to the dogs, and vice versa," says Elizabeth Barden Ackerman of Los Angeles. "The ones who are scared of my giant black Lab are quickly let go. The one who naturally pats and plays with him, refills his water bowl without being asked and who watches the dog and hilariously narrates his thoughts? He's special."
Allia Zobel Nolan of New York City knew the man she met was her true love because of the way he treated her cats, even though at heart he was a dog person.
"He loved me, so he loved my cats," she says.
Gail Parker of Philadelphia stopped seeing one man after her dog, a German shepherd, growled at him. She gave another the heave-ho when he called her Irish setter stupid.
The study's lead author, University of Nevada, Las Vegas anthropology professor Peter Gray, suggests that pets' status as family members could explain the significant influence they wield in the choices people make about who they date. He and fellow researchers, UNLV graduate student Shelly Volsche; Justin Garcia of the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University; and Helen Fisher of Rutgers University, say dog ownership may signal "a potential mate's caregiving capacity." How a person treats a pet could indicate how he or she would treat a mate and children.
McNamara and McGlynn? At their eventual wedding, more dogs than people were in attendance.
"Max is turning 14 in a month, and Jeff is still his most favorite human ever," McNamara says.
Bird's bald spots
can have multiple causes
Q: My African grey parrot is losing his feathers, and my veterinarian wants to run lab tests. I thought feather-plucking was a behavioral problem. What can lab tests tell us? -- via email
A: Feather-destructive disorder is a common and complex problem in birds. Among the species in which we typically see it are cockatoos, African greys, macaws, conures, cockatiels and lovebirds.
It's normal for birds to preen, or groom, their feathers to remove dirt or parasites, but when they start chewing the feathers, pulling them out altogether or even mutilating their bodies, the cause can be medical, behavioral or a combination of the two.
Underlying medical causes of feather-plucking can include inflammatory skin disease, low levels of thyroid hormones, liver or kidney disorders or tumors, to name just a few. Among the possible environmental causes are low humidity, poor lighting or changes in the bird's routine. Behavioral causes include boredom, anxiety and frustration. Sometimes the condition can have multiple causes. Because of this, diagnosing it can be a challenge.
A thorough medical history and, ideally, an environmental and behavioral evaluation are the foundation of a diagnosis, but a complete blood count, chemistry profile, screening for infectious disease, bacterial and fungal cultures, fecal exam and skin and feather follicle biopsies can all provide valuable information.
Treatment takes time and patience, and it may not lead to a complete cure. Depending on the cause, medication can help to reduce inflammation, itchiness and anxiety. Even if the cause is medical, enriching the bird's environment with interesting toys, opportunities to climb or fly and foods that require the bird to work to get at them is a valuable component of treatment. -- Dr. Marty Becker
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Pets need dental
-- It’s National Pet Dental Health Month. What are you doing to keep your dog or cat’s teeth clean? The basics include brushing teeth frequently (daily is best) and getting a professional exam and cleaning annually by your pet’s veterinarian. To help dogs or cats enjoy tooth brushing -- and, by extension, ensuring that you enjoy brushing your pet’s teeth -- here are some tips. Start small; brush just a few teeth at a time. Give pets a reason to enjoy the experience: Practice with peanut butter for dogs or tuna juice for cats. Reward pets with a dental treat after brushing.
-- Pets are popular on Instagram. Top dogs and cool cats include canine pop culture king Doug the pug (@itsdougthepug); Manny the Frenchie (@manny_the_frenchie), who promotes animal rescue organizations; Venus (@venustwofacecat), noted for her split face -- half black, half orange -- and odd eyes -- one green and one blue; Jack (@jackthecockatiel), a skateboarding cockatiel from Brazil; Ella Bean (@ellabeanthedog), a fashionista Chihuahua; Lil Bub (@iamlilbub), a cat who has raised more than $200,000 for animal-related charities; Nala (@nala_cat), whose 3.8 million followers make her the most-followed feline on Instagram; and working dog K-9 Piper (@airportk9), a border collie who helps control wildlife at the airport in Traverse City, Michigan.
-- United Airlines and Delta Airlines no longer permit animals younger than 4 months in the cabin, whether they are pets, emotional-support animals or service animals. The only emotional support animals allowed are dogs and cats. Also banned are emotional-support dogs and cats on flights longer than eight hours. Southwest Airlines put in a place a requirement limiting emotional-support animals to dogs, cats and occasionally miniature horses. The changes come in the wake of bite incidents and other unacceptable behavior. -- Dr. Marty Becker, Kim Campbell Thornton and Mikkel Becker
ABOUT PET CONNECTION
Pet Connection is produced by a team of pet-care experts headed by "The Dr. Oz Show" veterinarian Dr. Marty Becker and award-winning journalist Kim Campbell Thornton. They are affiliated with Vetstreet.com and are the authors of many best-selling pet-care books. Joining them is dog trainer and behavior consultant Mikkel Becker. Dr. Becker can be found at Facebook.com/DrMartyBecker or on Twitter at DrMartyBecker. Kim Campbell Thornton is at Facebook.com/KimCampbellThornton and on Twitter at kkcthornton. Mikkel Becker is at Facebook.com/MikkelBecker and on Twitter at MikkelBecker.