DEAR MISS MANNERS: What is proper when someone apologizes and you know it isn't sincere? To just say, "I do not accept your apology," or what? How do I respond?
GENTLE READER: "I appreciate your saying that." It may be said in the same tone of voice that led you to believe that the apology was not sincere. And if you are on jury duty, Miss Manners assures you that an insincere apology does not prevent you from voting for conviction.