DEAR HARRIETTE: A few years back, I went on a number of dates with a man, but it didn’t turn into anything. We remained friends on social media, but we stopped communicating directly. I found out he was engaged about a year ago and congratulated him. Since that interaction, he has reached out to me a number of times to ask if we can speak on the phone or meet up for drinks. I always say no, but he’s been persistent. I don’t know his fiancee, but should I tell her about these interactions? I would want someone to tell me if my fiance were trying to meet up with women from his past. -- Crossing the Line
DEAR CROSSING THE LINE: Do not reach out to his fiancee. You do not want to get entangled in their business. You can warn him off, though. The next time he reaches out to you, tell him that if he doesn’t stop, you will contact his fiancee and let her know that he has been badgering you to get together even though you both know he has committed to marrying her.