DEAR ABBY: Years ago, a gentleman wrote to you asking what he should get his aged parents who didn't need another "thing." You suggested he write them a letter telling them why he was thankful for them. He wrote you back later telling you he had taken your advice, how much it meant to his father and that, shortly afterward, his father died.
I immediately wrote each of my parents a letter listing the things I learned from them and what I cherished about them. It was the perfect, most meaningful thing I could have done for them. They have since passed on. I am so thankful that I was able to do that for them.
I have read your column for about 35 years. It is always respectful and full of common sense. Thank you. -- GRATEFUL IN COEUR D'ALENE, IDAHO
DEAR GRATEFUL: You're welcome. I'm glad you picked up on the suggestion and that it made your parents happy. I can think of few people who would not welcome -- and treasure -- a love letter if it's sincere.