DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and are in a committed relationship. Yesterday he told me he isn't sexually satisfied. I was shocked. I thought our sex life was good overall. However, he says he feels he's doing most of the work and I'm not "adventurous" enough. He's not looking for anything crazy, but I have limited experience and lack confidence in this area. How do I get my confidence up and meet his needs? -- UNSURE IN ILLINOIS
DEAR UNSURE: Have a talk with your boyfriend. Tell him you are glad that he was honest with you about his feelings. Then ask what he meant by "adventurous" and what he would like from you. It could be something as simple as you initiating the sexual encounters more often. But if it's not, it will be the beginning of an important conversation.