DEAR ABBY: I'm dating a man who insists that I pay for our dinners every time he comes to visit. He doesn't even offer. One time when I didn't pick up the check he reached across the table and handed it to me. I'm not sure how to handle this. -- WORTH A TREAT IN WEST VIRGINIA
DEAR WORTH A TREAT: The next time this user comes to visit and hands you the check, hand it back and walk out of the restaurant. If he claims to have "forgotten his wallet" as well as his manners, stop dating him.