DEAR ABBY: I recently suffered a heart attack. Everything's fine now except for some minor damage to my heart and some necessary lifestyle changes. Smoking is now out.
I live in a rural area. The only cath lab facility was 45 minutes away by helicopter. My boss and assistant supervisor both traveled 2 1/2 hours to visit me and, in addition, my boss and his director are coming here today to transport me back home. I would like to show my appreciation for their kindness, but I'm not sure what would be appropriate. Your advice would be appreciated. -- ON THE MEND
DEAR ON THE MEND: I'm pleased you are doing better. I'm sure anything you choose to give them would be appreciated. Consider taking them out to dinner. Alternatively, perhaps present them with coffee mugs with "hero" or "champion" on them -- they can be ordered online -- and a card explaining that the word reminded you of them.