DEAR ABBY: I found out I have breast cancer again, except this time I am dying. I do not know when.
I have told family and friends about the cancer, but not about the fact that it will be terminal. How can I get some of them to come and visit me while I'm still feeling good? I have asked, but only about three have come.
I feel lonely, Abby. I don't drive, so it's difficult. I feel life is still good, so what can I do? -- LIVING IN THE PRESENT IN MAINE
DEAR LIVING: I'm sorry about your prognosis. While you can still enjoy their company, you should level with the people you care about and tell them what's going on. That way, fewer of them will procrastinate, and you can have the emotional support you need during this difficult time.