DEAR ABBY: My daughter just got engaged and is beginning to plan her wedding. Her fiance has been married before, but she hasn't. She wants a band at the reception and he wants a D.J. (which he had at his first wedding). My husband is paying for the entire affair, and he and I support our daughter in this.
I know this seems like a small thing, but her fiance is really digging in his heels. Would it be wrong for her to pull the "this is my one and only wedding" card? This fight seems ridiculous to us. What do you think? -- PARENTS OF THE BRIDE
DEAR PARENTS: I'm glad you asked. I think that if your daughter goes that route, it may not be her one and only wedding. And I urge you and your husband to stay out of it and let the two lovebirds resolve this for themselves.