DEAR ABBY: Three years ago I was laid off from my job and fell into hard times. As a last resort, I moved back in with my parents and got a job at a retail store.
Over the last three years, I have paid off many of my bills and repaired my credit. I'm now saving for a new car, looking for a higher-paying job and searching for a roommate to share an apartment. My parents say my siblings and I are always welcome, that we should move out when we are ready and come back if we need to.
I have met a lot of judgmental people along the way who assume I want to "live with my parents forever and remain a child" when they learn I live with them. My family takes care of one another and does not abandon anyone once they have reached a certain age. What do I say to people who want to advise or admonish me about something that is none of their business? -- STILL AN ADULT
DEAR STILL AN ADULT: Since you asked for my two cents, allow me to contribute. I don't know what kind of people you have been spending time with, but someone who would have the gall to "advise and admonish" you because of the living arrangement you have with your parents is beyond rude. You shouldn't feel compelled to defend it or offer any explanations. Frankly, I think you should avoid these people.