DEAR ABBY: I am a single mother who has had my share of heartbreak. I was with "Kent" for almost two years. We moved in together and talked often about marriage. Things were going great, but then he lost his job. After that, finding and keeping a job became harder and harder for him.
One day when I came home from work, all of Kent's clothes were gone. He said he had moved back in with his mother because he didn't feel comfortable with me paying all the bills. He assured me he still wanted to remain in the relationship, and once he could keep a steady job he'd move back.
Three months later, he broke up with me. The following week some mutual friends told me he had gotten married!
When I confronted Kent, he told me he still wants to have a sexual relationship with me. I refused and haven't spoken to him since. Yesterday I learned that I am pregnant with his child.
I am turned upside down without a clue what to do. Is it wrong to feel hatred for him? -- BETRAYED IN TEXAS
DEAR BETRAYED: Under the circumstances your feelings are understandable. Now, here's what to do. Contact Kent AND his wife and tell them the "happy" news that he is going to be a father -- and you expect him to shoulder all the responsibilities that go with it. Then talk to a lawyer to be sure he does.Read more in: Love & Dating