DEAR ABBY: I have a condition that causes constant migraines. A new neighbor heard about my illness and is determined to become my second mother. She continually tries to visit, call and text even though my husband and I have asked her not to.
I dislike hurting people. How can I get her to stop her stalker-ish behavior without making this old lady my enemy? -- MY OTHER HEADACHE'S A NEIGHBOR
DEAR OTHER HEADACHE: Stop asking and tell this well-meaning woman that she's making your condition worse by continuing to call, text and visit. And while you're at it, tell her that when you're ready for company, you will contact her -- but only when you're feeling well enough to chat. If she persists after that, don't answer her calls and refuse her visits.