DEAR ABBY: My in-laws double dip everything. During a holiday get-together, a family member stood eating out of a pot. Now my M-I-L informs me her daughter allows her dog to eat off the plates, but "she uses a dishwasher" so I shouldn't worry about germs.
How do I handle this? I can't eat there again. -- GROSSED OUT IN GROSSE POINT
DEAR GROSSED OUT: Eat before you go, and go as infrequently as possible.