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by Abigail Van Buren

Etiquette Dictates Wedding Invitations For Engagement Partygoers

DEAR ABBY: Does being invited to an engagement party "guarantee" you will also be invited to the wedding? -- LOOKING AHEAD IN WASHINGTON, D.C.

DEAR LOOKING AHEAD: Yes, it does. And for that not to happen is a huge breach of etiquette on the part of whoever is hosting the wedding, whether it's the bride's parents or the couple themselves.

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