DEAR ABBY: My husband, "Vic," and I used to work at the same company. While I worked there I noticed that one of the women who worked in the building cafe seemed to have a crush on him.
I left work to be a stay-at-home mom. I trust my husband and know he would never do anything with this woman. However, I'm uncomfortable because he talks about her often, and she gives him free food just about every day and jokes around with him. If I have lunch with Vic there, she won't look at me. She and I used to talk often.
I haven't said anything to him about how I feel. Should I worry about this? Should I ask him to be careful around her? -- ALLERGIC TO WHAT SHE'S SERVING
DEAR ALLERGIC: Mention to your husband that you have noticed a change in the server's reaction to you, if you wish -- but I don't think you have anything to be worried about. She probably does have a crush on Vic, and the reason she can't look at you may be she feels guilty for flirting with him, or your presence is a reminder that he is unavailable, which spoils her fantasy.