DEAR ABBY: I recently reconnected with a friend on Facebook whom I hadn't seen in 40 years. The photo she posted is from high school. Usually there's a reason for that, but after meeting her again, she's still as pretty as I remembered -- but she looks like she's frozen in the 1960s. She desperately needs a "makeover." How can I politely help my friend update her look with a new hairdo and more flattering makeup? (One of my daughters is a stylist and the other is an aesthetician.) -- STILL SMITTEN IN KANSAS
DEAR STILL SMITTEN: Introduce her to your daughters, let nature take its course and the inevitable will happen.