DEAR ABBY: I have been dating "Carolyn" for about a year. We are both in our 50s and have talked about marriage in the future.
Before we met, Carolyn had profiles on two dating sites -- not as a paid member, but just as someone who could look around without being able to send or receive messages.
I have asked her to delete these profiles now that we have reached the one-year mark. She says I shouldn't be concerned, that she's just interested in reading about other people. She insists she wants to be only with me and isn't looking to go out with anyone else.
Abby, this doesn't sit well with me. What do you think? -- EXCLUSIVELY HERS IN PENNSYLVANIA
DEAR EXCLUSIVELY HERS: I think you don't trust Carolyn. Unless you're convinced that she's "exclusively" yours -- and you're not -- you should rethink your future with her. If you're discussing marriage, she shouldn't be disregarding your feelings.