DEAR ABBY: I have known this man I'll call "Jesse" for 11 years, but I feel like I really don't know him at all. I have asked many people this question, but no one can give me an answer. Why would a man always answer a question with a question? -- JUST ANSWER THE QUESTION
DEAR JUST: A person who always answers a question with a question is someone who wants to avoid giving a straight answer.