DEAR ABBY: I am thinking about trying something unusual, and I would like your opinion. I am a divorced mother of two who is fortunate to have an excellent relationship with my ex-husband and his wife. We all believe that the children come first.
For many reasons, I believe the best arrangement may be for all of us to live together. I have found a house with a lovely remodeled basement with a separate entrance. I could live there, and my ex and his wife could have the upstairs. We would not have to venture into each other's space unless invited, but the children would have easy access to all of us.
Obviously, there are details to work out, but we think we are all mature enough to handle them. Have you ever heard of this working? -- L.C. IN MISSOURI
DEAR L.C.: No, I haven't. What you're contemplating would require an unusual degree of maturity and civility, but that doesn't mean it can't be done. However, I can't help but wonder what might happen if you brought another man into the equation. Would everyone be as comfortable then?