DEAR ABBY: My family is going to buy a new sofa and loveseat because our old ones are in very bad shape. Thye're in bad shape because we have two moochers who use them as their bed. So why buy a new set if it will only end up like the old one? Isn't it a waste of money? -- HOLLY IN NORTH CAROLINA
DEAR HOLLY: Yes, and that is why I'm suggesting that your family wait until you can buy a new sofa, loveseat and an air mattress to accommodate the "moochers." Either that, or learn to say no.