DEAR ABBY: My sister, "June," came to live with my husband and me two years ago because living arrangements with her son didn't work out. Since then, my husband of 50 years has passed on. My house is too big for me to take care of because I have medical problems of my own.
June doesn't help with any of the household chores or bills. I have wanted to sell my house ever since my children moved out years ago, but my husband wanted to keep it in case any of them needed to come back.
Four of my children have invited me into their homes, but what should I do with June? I love my sister and don't want to throw her out into the street, but I want to move on. Please help me. -- TORN SENIOR IN NEW YORK
DEAR TORN: You were wonderful to have provided a refuge for your sister when she needed it. However, she's an able-bodied adult and should not be your responsibility. It's time for your sister to make other living arrangements. Talk to her and set a date for her to move. If she can't afford to live alone, she should find a roommate with whom to share expenses. You have done enough.