DEAR ABBY: Your readers often express concerns about America's health-care system. However, one problem doesn't get enough attention: More than 41 million Americans are without health insurance. This includes more than 8 million children. In March, hundreds of national organizations will work together to spotlight this problem.
The uninsured pay a high price for not having health coverage. They often live with prolonged illness and skip lifesaving medical screenings. Their children do not get adequate medical care.
Please urge your readers to join me during "Cover the Uninsured Week," March 10-16, 2003. During this time, a series of national and local activities to increase discussion of the issue will be featured.
To learn more about this, to find resources to help the uninsured and discover simple ways to get involved, visit: www.CoverTheUninsured.org.
Abby, thank you for informing your readers about this unprecedented awareness campaign. -- RISA LAVIZZO-MOUREY, M.D., PRESIDENT, THE ROBERT WOOD JOHNSON FOUNDATION
DEAR DR. LAVIZZO-MOUREY: You're welcome. I am pleased to promote your awareness campaign in the hope that concerned readers will get involved. It's a disgrace that in a country as wealthy and powerful as ours, millions of people are without access to medical care.
DEAR ABBY: Please settle an ongoing debate between me and a friend: When is the appropriate time to end conversations at the movie theater? Should they end when the lights go down and the screen lights up, or is it OK to talk through the previews until the feature begins? -- MOVIE-MANNERS SEEKER
DEAR MOVIE-MANNERS SEEKER: Conversation should cease when the lights go down and the previews begin. (Sometimes they are better than the full-length movies.) Silence is considered a sign of respect for those seated around you and will be appreciated.
P.S. Cell phones and pagers should also be turned off.
DEAR ABBY: After reading the letters about doctors who dislike being asked medical questions in social settings, I had to write.
Anytime you include a job description such as doctor or lawyer with your name, you can expect questions regarding your profession. It happens to everyone.
Speaking as a real estate investment adviser, I can assure you that even doctors try to get free advice. The same thing happens to accountants, carpenters, painters, police personnel, nurses and just about everybody else.
It should come as a surprise to no one. It is called CONVERSATION. -- HAPPY TALK IN WINNETKA, ILL.
DEAR HAPPY TALK: You're right. Many people ask questions as a way of showing interest and starting conversations. It happens to advice columnists, too. Read on:
DEAR ABBY: After reading about doctors getting asked for free advice, I would like to offer my father's response when asked what he did for a living.
He would say, "I follow the medical profession."
"Oh, you're a doctor?"
"No, I'm a mortician."
At that point the questioners usually changed the subject. -- RUTH STRAND, RANCHO MIRAGE, CALIF.
DEAR RUTH: Too bad. Death is the one thing we will all have in common.
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